simba
Was anyone nervous to start Metformin? And did you have side effects?
I’m finding with a lot of stress, and trying to manage my diabetes with diet and excercise is taking a toll on me, with back problems and other factors in my life, I’m feeling down, with having this disease and no one to talk to at home about my feelings. My daughter moved out in the summer and I miss are talks and doing things together, she has a busy life with working and a boyfriend, and it’s coming up to my moms 9 year anniversary of her passing and just feel like crying to be quite honest and Christmas around the corner I always feel the grief and my daughter and I would go out and shop and decorate the house, it’s just not the same. When I feel like this I just don’t want to do anything, it’s not depression. It’s the loneliness.
Lori.Foster Community Admin
Hi
Jack edward Member
it sounds so tough, especially during the holidays. Starting Metformin can be daunting, and it’s normal to feel anxious about side effects. The grief you’re experiencing and missing your daughter must be incredibly heavy. Maybe finding little ways to honor those special moments, like decorating a cozy space for yourself, could help bring some comfort. Remember, you’re not alone in this feel free to share anytime. ❤️
simba Member
Thank you for your replies it sure helps to have people like all of you who understand, I appreciate so much.
Lori.Foster Community Admin
Welcome to the community,
Did your doctor tell you how often to test? If not, you might want to call or message your doctor's office to find out. Some people test before and after meals. Some test only after meals. Others test all of those times and every morning and every night. Here is another article you might find helpful: https://type2diabetes.com/living-with-t2d/home-blood-glucose-monitoring. It offers some guidelines on proper methods of testing.
One thing you can do immediately is work on changing your diet. An easy way to get started is the plate method. The plate method encourages people to fill half their plate at each meal with nonstarchy vegetables. That includes veggies such as green salad, broccoli, cucumbers, green beans, etc. You want to avoid veggies like carrots, potatoes and corn because they are higher in carbs. A quarter of the plate should be filled with lean protein, and the final quarter can be a starch or carb, like rice, potatoes or pasta. If you experiment with spices, you'll find that lower-carb meals can be super tasty. I love Indian, Thai and Mexican foods. All three cultures have lots of dishes that are super tasty and either low in carbs or easy to make with fewer carbs.
I don't want to overwhelm you with too much information, so I'll stop there. Try not to stress about changing too much too fast. Make changes you can handle and keep them up until they really become habits. Then make more. Each sustainable change is a victory.
I hope this helps. We are here for you whenever you need support or a place to vent. Best wishes. - Lori (Team Member)
Tula62 Member
And I find there isn’t enough support out there for us with diabetes of any kind.
So when you change your diet, do it slowly, and for some excercise choose what you can do not what the doctors tell you to do if you can only walk for 15 minutes to start, then a few weeks later increase to 20 minutes and so on. Get someone to support you through the journey, someone could be a spouse your children, your friends. Or even the diabetes clinic which should be at the hospital. I found the person who taught the classes, was not very empathetic. And let me tell you it sure helps when there someone to talk to, when you get fed up with having this disease, there needs to be a person that tells you all that your feeling is NORMAL. No one said this in the classes except on the second class she said I know this can be overwhelming, ya it sure was and wish she would of elaborated more on being overwhelmed and what was a head for me.
So that’s a bit of my story
I check my sugars before eating and two hours after eating, this was in the beginning when first diagnosed, I would recommend to go to the American diabetes website, I live in Canada the numbers here are measured differently then in the US. What I mean by this ares is 5.6 and in the US they use double digits and triple digits there numbers look like this 40 or 102 I don’t understand there way what numbers are good or not so good. Just know Canadian measures. So go to AmericanDiabetes.com the website will give you lots of info, but read only what you want to know for now and that would be how to read your glucose numbers on your meters. That’s good you bought a meter They only come with a few test strips and a few lancets, you will probably have to get a perscription for more test strips and lancets those are the needles you prick your finger with. You should talk to your doctor about all this to he could show you and educate you on how to use the monitor. And he should have told you all this to. Didn’t he tell you about the diet? My doctor was very vague on the diet. I don’t get this that doctors don’t give you some information about the diet. It seems your on your own after diagnosis which is sooooo wrong. I’m glad your seeing a diabetes educator. For now just eat low carb and try your best to stay away form sugar, drink water, and if you drink pop switch to diet pop, for now. Use a sweetener in your coffee if you drink coffee or try without any sugar.
PreD Member
Hopefully you and your daughter can visit each other soon.
I started metformin 6 weeks ago. I don't know if it is working until I get labs in another 6 weeks. For now no ill effects. Best of luck!
lauren.mullin Community Admin